It's kinda funny that my favourite colour is purple πππ and arriving at Nostr, with all this purple around, it's catchy to me...it's like arriving at a place where it feels home.
Exes are amazing,!
They don't want anything to do with you, when they have you...but as soon as they perceive you all interested again, in someone you, (they seem to come with a radar), all their attention is back right at you, .only to disappear on you, when they finally achieved, their goal, that was only to make the new person simply just step away from you...
Why are people so evil and mean?
I know perfectly what you mean...but I am sad for the person that allowed it to happen. My friend still believes that the ex is a good person. You can't take away a person from the illusion if they don't want to. It breaks my heart to see the confusion and pain.
I hope also. I can only give my support. I was in this this place once, so I know that it doesn't matter what you say, until they are ready to admit that was all an illusion. It's very painful yes.
To understand that some of our responses, and what triggers us in another , sometimes has nothing to do with the other, but are inherited from past wounding. Instead of feeling attacked, work on understanding from where it is coming from, and only answer when that understanding is present.
When I was taking care of my little princess I did huge healing in order not to pass to her my emotional turmoil. Was a very good exercise that allowed me to stop before reacting. It was not easy and some days I did fail. But in the end, the balance was positive. She helped so much to grow. Children are great mirrors.
You know when they paint everything and cut clothes...lol ? And yiu are tired or upset? I very patiently sit with her and said, you can paint, but not on the walls and furniture. You have here paper, pens you can use anytime. If you need anything ask.
As for the clothes I said, her , if you cut your beautiful dress, then you cannot use it again
Or the socks to make dresses to Barbie lol πππ I said, you ask me and I give the ones that are small, ok ?
And she agreed.
Sometimes we forget that if we react in a certain way, we can prevent an artist to become one ! Gotta be very careful. And if we explain everything, with simplicity, they understand.
Sadly, people mistake being kind with people pleasing....
When we act from a place, so that we don't get a reaction we don't like from others, we don't come from an authentic place, therefore we are lying to ourselves and kindness is not being offered.
Love it !! π
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No, I want to quit because I want healthier lungs. I have allergies and is no good for me.
But I am lacking the will. I made already 4 attempts and
failed 4 months into it ...and what I notice is, the addiction becomes stronger after every failed rehab.
No surgery. The only time I quit smoking, was when I was pregnant and I did not smoke for 2y ...
That would do, but iqs not in my plans having children.
I made a Minibits wallet, but I am not comfortable with the fact that if I loose phone I loose account...
I need some help on how to go around this.
Can anyone help ?
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