Exes are amazing,! 
They don't want anything to do with you, when they have you...but as soon as they perceive you all interested again, in someone you, (they seem to come with a radar), all their attention is back right at you, .only to disappear on you, when they finally achieved, their goal, that was only to make the new person simply just step away from you...

Why are people so evil and mean? 
 

 This ex has triggered my narcissist radar… 

 I know perfectly what you mean...but I am sad for the person that allowed it to happen. My friend still believes  that the ex is a good person. You can't take away a person from the illusion if they don't want to. It breaks my heart to see the confusion and pain.  

 I agree. And it will be painful. Hopefully they will see in time and let someone new in the lives with no care of what the ex thinks. 

 I hope also. I can only give my support. I was in this this place once, so I know that it doesn't matter what you say, until they are ready to admit that was all an illusion. It's very painful yes. 

 You gotta block exes on everything. Once the relationship is over they shouldn’t have access to you. It’s like they’re an enemy with the sole mission of dismantling your peace. 

 I have to agree.