How can I get off of the hellthread? 

 If you find out let me know 🤣 

 Who the heck put you on a hellthread 😜 

 😜 

 make a button in your client for that obviously  

 😂 

 nostr:nprofile1qqsrhuxx8l9ex335q7he0f09aej04zpazpl0ne2cgukyawd24mayt8gprfmhxue69uhhq7tjv9kkjepwve5kzar2v9nzucm0d5hszxmhwden5te0wfjkccte9emk2um5v4exucn5vvhxxmmd9us2xuyp is the most positive and upbeat person on nostr. Even more so than nostr:nprofile1qqsr7acdvhf6we9fch94qwhpy0nza36e3tgrtkpku25ppuu80f69kfqpzdmhxw309akx7cmpd35x7um58g6rsd3eqyxhwumn8ghj7mn0wvhxcmmvqyg8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnhd9hx2px56dk.  nostr:nevent1qqsz09uwdykdnsamx259xprv8rsmfurvasgnhxp98zv6kzz6cnaypzqpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7q3qel3mgvtdjpfntdkwq446pmprpdv85v6rs85zh7dq9gvy7tgx37xsxpqqqqqqzdfm7ep 

 Dude needs to fix his relay 😜 https://i.nostr.build/TcuSXYJKxNZQxmOG.jpg  

 You must fix your client!, Pyramid is blocking clients that unnecessarily open multiple connections or spam reconnections without waiting some seconds after a failure. What client is that? 

 I’m using Damus and nothing wrong with it.
Couple of other people have said they too are getting errors with your relay dude. 

 What does @fiatjaf use that’s better than Damus? 

 I'm not saying Damus is bad in any way, this is just @Marie twisting things. If Damus connects twice in a row to a relay that's almost not even a bug (although I think it shouldn't do it).

But I'm not even sure this is the issue, it could very well be on my side and I thought she could provide information to help me debug that, but instead what I got was some weird aggressive message. 

 Btw, I am actually curious what client you use. We like to test everything here. 

Also, I completely understand if you don’t want to say this in public. 

 These days mostly Gossip, but also Coracle and an old Plebstr sometimes on the phone. Previously I've used Snort a lot, Yana, Nostrudel, Alphaama, I'm probably missing some. I've never used Damus because I don't have an iPhone. 

 I’m not twisting thing, that’s not cool to say. 

 Well, if you say there is nothing wrong with it who am I to disagree? 

 But your relay is still showing an error? 

 I don't see any errors. 

 Right now for me it’s showing this https://i.nostr.build/IkvmauwDbQhL4SgW.jpg  

 Rugged again. 

 You need to be on dark mode https://i.nostr.build/KDkkSYihucGjTgIP.jpg  

 I wont venture into the dark side. 
What the heck is going on then, if mine keeps showing error? 

 I think it’s on Damus side. I don’t see it on other clients but I have seen the connection error on Damus. 

 @jb55 

 There’s a known bug when you have follows>1k and relays>10. Not sure if that’s the issue here
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 Fiatjaf has good dad jokes. I approve of this message. 

 👀 

 What is a non-dad joke? 

 Sounds like something they do on Bluesky? 

 One thats not apparent?  

 A good joke. 

 Why is everyone calling everything bullshit? Does everyone hate it here?