I'm not saying Damus is bad in any way, this is just @Marie twisting things. If Damus connects twice in a row to a relay that's almost not even a bug (although I think it shouldn't do it).

But I'm not even sure this is the issue, it could very well be on my side and I thought she could provide information to help me debug that, but instead what I got was some weird aggressive message. 

 Btw, I am actually curious what client you use. We like to test everything here. 

Also, I completely understand if you don’t want to say this in public. 

 These days mostly Gossip, but also Coracle and an old Plebstr sometimes on the phone. Previously I've used Snort a lot, Yana, Nostrudel, Alphaama, I'm probably missing some. I've never used Damus because I don't have an iPhone. 

 I’m not twisting thing, that’s not cool to say.