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 I doubt it’s significantly easier to date if you are making 6+ figs and are 6 ft tall. Sure you might have a confidence boost and can afford nicer dates more frequently, but women are fucking awful in 2023. So many are absolutely fried on SSRIs, overweight or obese, and have tattoos that look like shit (all of them look like shit on women). Reminder that Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, and Bill Gates can’t get a stable gf either. 
 I don't think attraction has anything to do with money 
 those people have “success and status” too 
 Yeah

But bezos looks like Elmer fudd. 

Women are born to sniff out male weakness. You can't fake confidence forever 
 The better you are, the more likely it is that quality people are willing to go out of their way to set you up with quality women. That’s the most realistic thing, and it’s still not guaranteed, but it’s about the best way to find a good woman, because chicks as a whole are going to ground like they’re evading the draft 
 @Springtime for Zeon (Woggy Mk II) @aafa3af6 doubt it, reality has consistently shown otherwise 
 You need to be enmeshing yourself in a community

and you need to be gregarious, competent, and well-liked

It’s a tall order that takes some time and work, but once you get there you’ll know it because old folks w/ good hearts are offended at the fact you’re still single