The better you are, the more likely it is that quality people are willing to go out of their way to set you up with quality women. That’s the most realistic thing, and it’s still not guaranteed, but it’s about the best way to find a good woman, because chicks as a whole are going to ground like they’re evading the draft 

 @Springtime for Zeon (Woggy Mk II) @aafa3af6 doubt it, reality has consistently shown otherwise 

 You need to be enmeshing yourself in a community

and you need to be gregarious, competent, and well-liked

It’s a tall order that takes some time and work, but once you get there you’ll know it because old folks w/ good hearts are offended at the fact you’re still single