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 @Springtime for Zeon (Woggy Mk II) @aafa3af6 doubt it, reality has consistently shown otherwise 
 You need to be enmeshing yourself in a community

and you need to be gregarious, competent, and well-liked

It’s a tall order that takes some time and work, but once you get there you’ll know it because old folks w/ good hearts are offended at the fact you’re still single