Oddbean

Wait, what? What brought transgender into this? My main point of this is that the majority of males that I know actually enjoy, have or would like to have 2 women together sexually. However these same men wouldn’t consider this as ‘gay’ at all, they consider this just an example of their fantasy and sexual urges. However, if you ask them what they think about 2 men together sexual, well they get defensive and say it’s downright ‘gay’! So in essence one sexual group isn’t gay but the other is, even though they are doing the exact same sexual acts. That’s my point.

Sorry for thread hijacking. I thought it was an interesting related point, related because the answer to your question is that men are sexually absolute, and that property is also responsible for other situations, the transgender one being the example that came to mind. Thanks for laying out your actual argument and premise for this thread. If a girl has sex with a girl, that is gay.... the girls are gay. If a guy is watching this, since the objects of his desire are both girls, the guy watching this is not at all gay. If I guy watches two men having sex, the watcher is definitely gay because where can he avert his eyes to?

There are many double standards between men and women. Most to the benefit of women imo. This one doesn't prove all men are gay. I honestly have turned down three-ways for many reasons, not because i wouldn't have physically enjoyed the act in the moment. It also was my primary reason for exit stage left.