Wait, what?
What brought transgender into this?
My main point of this is that the majority of males that I know actually enjoy, have or would like to have 2 women together sexually. However these same men wouldn’t consider this as ‘gay’ at all, they consider this just an example of their fantasy and sexual urges.
However, if you ask them what they think about 2 men together sexual, well they get defensive and say it’s downright ‘gay’! 
So in essence one sexual group isn’t gay but the other is, even though they are doing the exact same sexual acts.
That’s my point.