Oddbean new post about login | logout I'm in the middle of a heated discussion. Do men like mysterious women? And if so, when is a woman mysterious? What do you think @Eshara and @Mallory And of course, the question also goes to all men 😂
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Does mysterious mean 'crazy' in this context🤔 if so yes 🤣
Since I’m pretty much an open book and very single the answer is probably yes. Desired attributes of a partner are very subjective and for each person, man or woman, to decide. Blessedly not everyone is looking for the same thing. I do think novelty in a relationship helps keep the spark alive. Novelty is often confused with mystery.
nah that's garbage. Strong men like a kind woman. Weak men try to prove themselves to women, that's why "mysterious" women keep them simping. Chad expects to be treated well while simpy steve will latch onto any attention. Find yourself a strong man sister.
Oooo good question ! I think they do! Is why I'm always single 🤣😂 I'm not one bit mysterious 💜 this is my scientific research 🥸. She is mysterious when she barely shows her personality I think. Only to those she trusts, maybe 🤔 not sure if this made sense 😂🙏
Oh the three of us 😂 I am also very direct.
I didn’t understand flirting for ages. Then one day I made eye contact with a guy, smiled, and asked what breed his dog was… at the dog park. He started sputtering and finally got out that he had a fiancé. Which left me very confused until I released that what I had done was enough to make a man think I was flirting. That’s how simple it was. So I’m guessing being a mysterious woman is equally as simple. Don’t tell him your entire life story upon meeting. Don’t always be available. If you carry medicine in your purse have it in a container labeled Poison ☠️. Probably does it.
Totally that simple! 🤣
Mmmmh, I know that one. I am also very open and friendly. Smile a lot. That is quite misunderstood by men as flirting. But that is simply my way. Getting to know me as a woman is much more difficult. I am rather reserved. Almost skeptical. In a relationship then... 😂🤟🏾
I'm a woman. And my two cents is: whoever pats their head and sucks their balls.
By patting head I mean nannying them
As a member and representative of the male community, that in general there’s a right balance to be hit (which can definitely depend on the individuals), meaning that when a girl is too mysterious and playing incredibly hard to get, then eventually the guy gets bored and moves on. The same can also be true on the other extreme of spectrum for some, as in the girl is really upfront and leaves nothing for the guy to fascinate about, then the guy gets bored and moves on. I personally find it the best if it ends up being a continuous back and forth, making it like kind of a fun game between the two, which also helps spice up the relationship and keep it exciting
Ohhhhh do you mean sharing secrets/real feelings? Oh I hardly ever share those 😂 very rarely (nostr is the most open I've been online ever 😂) - I will when I really get to know the guy though, but takes a while. Personality I can't hide, it's hard 🥹. But I will try to strike a balance with the two 🥹🙏🫂 this is good advice tanel! 🤙
just couple of things that came to mind while eating 💜
What's for dinner?
Not peanut butter and jelly sandwiches 🥹😭🙏💜
Your favorite food?
Nahh my favourite is the Shroom burger from shake shack 👌😍🤤 - and yes, I know tanel, you don't know what it is 😭💜🙏 Otherwise Japanese and Eritrean food is 🤤😍👌
Maybe when I’ll actually get to properly visit England, I’ll try it out 🤔 Never really heard of the Eritrean cuisine before
never even had peanut butter 🤔
Ahhh, Tanel no peanut butter?
never had it 😂 no idea if i’m missing out 🤔 can’t have it all
If you do, put more jelly (jam) 🤤 Needs to be 60(j):40(P) 👌
I disagree, 60/40 in favor of peanut butter.
You are both criminal. Too much penis butter feels weird in my mouth. Jelly for the win 🥹🫠
Penis butter 🤣😂🤣
😱😱😱😱nahhh *peanut butter 🙏 sorry 🥲😂 why is that in my autocorrect 😅😭😭
And now it’s been reposted out of context. I’m dying of laughter over here. 🤣😂☠️😂🤣
Nooo 😭😭😭😂🤣 maybe people won't notice 😭 I'm gonna go hide 🥹🙏
Thank you for providing a lighthearted moment, even if it was unintentionally at your own expense 🤣🤙
There is nowhere to hide on Nostr.
Ma’am you have just been exposed for apparently typing that word often 🤣
Noo I don't I swear I never type penis 😭🤣😂 I don't think I do 🫠🤔. @jb55 @Vitor something's wrong with Nostr again cos why autocorrect gonna do me like that 😭
Yeah right why else was it in your auto-correct? 😂😂😂😂
It's too late, we all saw it now.
Maybe cos you eat too much 'penis butter' 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We need a proper delete button that works 😭🙏😂😂🥲😭🫠
Onw yuor tyops, @Eshara 🤙💜
No way this is hilarious
And I thought my jokes were bad.
We absolutely do not need a delete button. This brought many tears of laughter to many people.
Deletion is a funwrecker.
Epic 🤣 https://image.nostr.build/e8ca36ad5439d8a90a33b4cfce17c2e6a059281751aef83ac3c0f8c638b58967.jpg
🤣 Done that once or twice, last week 🤣
Peanut* 🥹 Whose boosting this 🤣😭😂 noo sexy search bot whyyy 😭
Who's* 😭😭😭😂 I can't spell today...
Then spit the penis butter out, maybe proper spelling returns after. PV 🫂
Expert level engagement hack
You just stand by? Why @Rich Nost?
Ahahahahaha
I would say: enjoy . For me peanut butter works
gonna try it out, let’s see 🤔 seems like a mouthful https://i.nostr.build/QPYZ.jpg
Where do you even get these? 😂😂
#taneldoesntwantto
I see what you did there ☝️😭😂💜😂😂🤣 I swear it tastes lovely really, just remember the ratio (my one, not the others, they're mad) 😎🤙
so 60% penis and 40% jelly is like the Goldilocks zone?
Noo 🤣 well yes but with peanut butter 🙏🥹😂😭😂😭🤣 guys I just want to show tenal some new stuff 😭🤣 he'll never try it now 🥹
I believe that he will definitely try it now
yeah, tenal will definitely give it a go not sure about tanel tho
😂 Eshara is a bit distracted today. Do you have something to tell us?
Blanched almond butter tho https://image.nostr.build/c07afbc41567196ad64c75d4628e9d4dcdd90aec4f37c530b2f30d02b94f75b9.jpg
How do you have a picture of this?
you don’t? 🤔 https://i.nostr.build/2qQd.jpg
tanel you do have an awful lot of these 🤔 have you just been collecting them over the years 💜🧐
We have wonderd the same thing at one point. He’s got a whole system 😂
10 seconds in google can help anybody out 🤗
Oh my 😳 you find them so quickly 🤣💜
just do a quick google, and you’ll see 🤗 https://i.nostr.build/g0YY.jpg
I'm learning from the meme king 🙏❤️☺️ I'm too slow to react though, would take me forever to find something good in time 🥹
just lean back and enjoy the show https://i.nostr.build/VoZv.jpg
I will not search 'penis butter' :)
Do it! Your life will be enriched. Don’t trust me. I’ve been watching this go down in real time and getting notifications.
#penisbutter originated here 😂
@NostReport Typo of the week?
penis of the week
peanut*
Guysss what about tanel 🥹 he's never had tacos (and PB&J) 😱😂 🙏🤣
one of the many reasons I love #nostr https://cdn.nostr.build/i/0aeb7560c271bbb1cef00760989acd9dd3f37bdc42b37852eecb0d0b70a3e862.jpg
I love the duality of nostr. https://image.nostr.build/6bfa351fcb0819209605044e3d2ba8ca522d09d6e30d2cc7f09fa1a5af748706.jpg
I was looking for this meme 😂🔥
Legendary forever typo
Typos make us stronger...and more hilarious.
💯% 🤣😂🤣 I think I'm immune to embarrassment now 🤣😂🙏
One of us! One of us! If the Nests after dark didn't do it, you've now been fully initiated 😂😂
Leave her! We tear down patriarchy to freely express our sexual desires and preferences! If she likes it, let her healthily enjoy it! You go girl👊❤️
🤣🤣🤣fapped
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Try this, you'd love it! because it comes without 'penis' 😂😂 https://nostrcheck.me/media/public/nostrcheck.me_9568978495358576831694634876.webp
May the sats you earn for the value you provided to Nostr today buy you something truly luxurious in the future. 🫂💜
That's why I keep the amount moderate, like a gentleman
Reminds me of this musicvideo 😅😅 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jBDnYE1WjI
How lucky I was to find the root of the "penis butter" discussion dominating my nostr threads.
This is one hell of a typo!
What's the difference between jelly and jam?
They are the same thing I think 🤔 but I could be totally wrong 🙏🏽🥹
I can't jelly my finger up my butt.
😂 a classic
🤣😂🤣 sometimes I forget about this 🫂
It gets reposted every now and again…….nostr will never forget 😂🫂
You are missing out. You need to try chocolate peanut butter also.
had couple slices of porkchop, while listening to this https://youtu.be/ofjSicZulKw?si=RPGM_5Y4ymyAjUrw
♂️ Not at all. I've seen a lot of people suggesting "don't be allways available" or things like that. I find it all very... artificial, probably that will atract the wrong people. Granted, nobody wants someone that is 100% available, that is lame and booring. If you actually have a life, filled with interesting things going on that you enjoy then you won't be 100% available all the time and not because you are trying to be mysterious, it will be just because you have a life of your own and that can be a source of interesting topics to share. A genuine one. Mysterious can be a little bit of fun but soon (at least for me) is quite annoying, I like when people is open and transparent, honest and genuine people. If they want to do something they say "yes", if they are not available but they want, they explain it exactly like that. I remember a girl who I dated a while ago that allways shared what she thought, simple stuff like "hey, I had a great time, lets repeat it soon" she didn't repress that attempting to be more mysterious or playing some sort of game. That is something really valuable for my perspective. People are mysterious enough as we are, ypu never finish to know someone, not even yourself. That's all the mystery needed IMO 🤔🧉🫡
No. We like hot women 😆
Before a connection yes after no That attraction goes away real quick if openness can never be found
Men like the chase. Mystery is part of the chase.
https://youtu.be/iqIq4B1rgl4?feature=shared Thought Peter André put this matter to bed in the early 2000's?
Given the same set of behaviors in two women: She's mysterious if she's hot, She's a goofy bitch if she's not. That's really all there is to it.
Mysterious women can be… quite alluring.
We like to conquer, there is mystery on that process, on going to the unknown for a good hunt, its exhilarating. I love that my wife does not tell me everything she does, it gives her power and that is sexy as hell, plus i get to keep my mystery as well. Otherwise it would turn dull.
Some mysterious women, yes. https://m.primal.net/HLMo.png
I’m not a man but definitely YES! Especially if she’s pretty.
