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 Since I’m pretty much an open book and very single the answer is probably yes. Desired attributes of a partner are very subjective and for each person, man or woman, to decide. Blessedly not everyone is looking for the same thing. I do think novelty in a relationship helps keep the spark alive. Novelty is often confused with mystery. 
 nah that's garbage. 

Strong men like a kind woman. 

Weak men try to prove themselves to women, that's why "mysterious" women keep them simping. 

Chad expects to be treated well while simpy steve will latch onto any attention. 

Find yourself a strong man sister.