Let me add, Narcissism is not ramping solely in between billionaires, it is ramping in our society in one on one connections. People confuse selfness with selfishness and entitlement...look at a fault to the outsid, but lack awareness of their own behaviours and taking accountability for the choices and paths they follow.
Thank you for the share and input. 🙌🤗
Not because of that I wouldn't mind to wear it as a provocationb( on a performance ) but I don't like to be the center of attention lol.
The thing is,wool directly on skin is not for me... 😂
"Do you know why people don't recognize what you do for them? Because, in the beginning gesture generates gratitude. The first time you are seen as generous.
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On Monday, gratitude turns into anticipation – now, the person is already expecting what you give. The third time, the expectation is born: she counts on it. On Wednesday, what was a gesture becomes seen as a right; the person feels he deserves what you are offering. The fifth time, you create an addiction: this person can no longer imagine his life without what you give, and he already feels spoiled. The sixth time, when you realize the lack of reciprocity and decide to stop, what you get in return is resentment. The person, accustomed to what they received, now feels unfair and may even begin to hate you for denying what they believed deserved.
Therefore, recognizing the limits of giving is essential. Because the other has no limits to receive."
(Mario Venuti)
#FoodForThought
I am cracking laughing in my bed....lol I get them from crazy crazy memes pages I follow... I have been collecting since ever... I think I have more memes than pics, but I am picky 😂😂😂
"Stop for a minute. This is insane. Regardless of what you bring to the relationship, what you have to offer, or what you're hoping to take away, the question now is: what role are you truly playing? Who even are you in the exchange??
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As the eclipse approaches, surface changes or doing what’s convenient won't amount to diddly-squat. If you, yourself, aren't actively working to uncover the hidden roles you've unconsciously played into—the stereotypical nonsense you know you've outgrown but still cling to—then allow me to make a prediction: Bad news ahead for you, buster...
What have you avoided stepping up for, even though it's calling you forward? Time to grow tf up. This eclipse here, hurling your way like a hurricane, to shake you up, upset the f*ck out of your current position, force you to confront the archetypal shifts you've been resisting. Are you ready to face the facts about what’s been lurking behind your identity?"
By Ang Stoic
#AstrologyForecast
The Ego has nothing to do with IQ....
It's the part of the mind that mediates between conscious and unconscious and is responsible for reality testing and a sense of personal identity.
How can you be a Saint without the hability to meditate between conscious from unconscious?
Narcissists can't perceive reality from fantasy.
Is a complex subject anyway.
Testing reality is for example, you perceive something as dangerous, so you get into alert mode.
A healthy person will use the Ego to understand (test reality) if the situation is really dangerous or coming from fear (unconscious).
If is not real danger will act accordingly and relax.
A person with an unhealthy Ego or without the capacity to test reality, will simply react. I am in danger therefore I attack, even if danger is just perceived and not real.
Does it make sense?
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