A Narcissist has no Ego, contrary to what many think. They can't test reality, they are always in "flight or fight" mode ( survival mode). They "use" others to validate their lack of self worth. Others are extensions of them. We don't exist as an outside person, to them. If you stop to give thempositive kr negative reaction, hence validate them, they have to find someone that will or else they decompensate. in extreme cases they feel what is called mortification. Deep wound.
If you kill ego, you loose the hability to test reality and defend yourself from danger.
The Ego has nothing to do with IQ....
It's the part of the mind that mediates between conscious and unconscious and is responsible for reality testing and a sense of personal identity.
How can you be a Saint without the hability to meditate between conscious from unconscious?
Narcissists can't perceive reality from fantasy.
I love your paintings, how can I say, I enjoy better the ones that are not landscapes. Not saying I don't enjoy them, I do, but you have a uniqueness when you paint others themes, that marvelous my soul. ✨💜✨
Powerful ones, all of them ... ✨
They are protecting me at this time and giving me insights also.
I LOVE the Jasmine insence its super relaxing. I did use to drink tea for that effect but never thought about the effect of the insence burning ..lol
Who knows why!
I dont recall lavanda having the same effect but I reckon I was not so "aware"/ open / attentive, as I am at this time. 💖
My colleagues at work are not my friends. This does not mean, that with time, I cannot build a bond with someone I like. After 20y at same place, first time, there is a girl I do like and connect differently. We might become friends, 😊 since day one there was a "familiar" energy exchange.
Give it a try !
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Animals are pure by nature. Humans come with DNA baggage...and some have a lineage they are supposed to break free from. Some do the work, and break the pattern, others continue the pattern.
You keep your heart light and look at life with wondering eyes ... Better said than done, but not impossible.
Walk without expectations...be open and vulnerable.
You guys always think that a young girl will be perfect until reality strikes....I remember recently saying to a friend, if you want someone you want to teach....go for it...lol
The reality is, not everyone has the patience nor the skills and openness to be a teacher and deal with immaturity and child's behaviour.
I don't say is not possible, but I reckon only in peculiar circumstances it will work.
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