nostr:nprofile1qqsqgcez8t0n3hu6y2nlkpuenf3clh2zmpph2ulqhuvug0sp8v2dvucppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qyfhwumn8ghj7mmxve3ksctfdch8qatz9uq32amnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwv3sk6atn9e5k7tc22zn02, you know this ?
"A grown man who needs multiple women is unhappy with himself, for his insecurities and inadequacies drive him to seek validation in the arms of many, rather than confronting the emptiness within, and finding solace in the love and acceptance of one.
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This behavior is a symptom of a deeper issue, rooted in his inability to confront his flaws, fears, and weaknesses, and instead, he searches for temporary escapes and superficial solutions.
A lack of self-awareness, a fear of intimacy, a need for control, a craving for validation, and a void that cannot be filled, drive his actions, leading him down a path of destruction.
By spreading himself thin, he avoids the vulnerability required for true connection, instead opting for shallow encounters that momentarily boost his ego but ultimately leave him unfulfilled, empty, and searching for the next fix.
Meanwhile, the women in his life are reduced to mere objects, used for temporary validation, discarded when no longer needed, and left to pick up the pieces of their own shattered self-worth, struggling to heal and move forward.
But the truth remains, no amount of external validation can replace self-love, no number of conquests can fill the void within, and no woman can complete a man who is broken, lost, and fragmented.
True strength lies in vulnerability, true courage lies in self-reflection, and true happiness lies in self-acceptance, but until he confronts his demons, he will continue to harm those around him and himself.
A grown man who needs multiple women is unhappy with himself, and this reality check is a wake-up call, a chance for redemption, and an opportunity to redefine his path."
Found this text...I like it... I believe anyone can change, if they want.to.
Art by Eric Brenner
#ThinksILikestr
"If you truly love someone, there is no reason to cheat. Love is built on trust, respect, and commitment. Cheating, in any form, destroys that foundation. There’s no such thing as "micro-cheating" because any act of disloyalty, no matter how small, breaks the trust in a relationship.
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If you're not happy or fulfilled, it's better to be honest and communicate rather than hurt the person you claim to love. Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. True love doesn't need lies or deceit—it requires honesty, respect, and dedication.
In the end, if you truly value someone, you wouldn't risk losing them for a moment of temptation. Respect the relationship, and if it’s not working, walk away before causing harm."
Not my writing but I agree 💯!
#MyBeliefs
I haven't yet, but he is coming ! 😋🕺💃🤗🫂
I think only week people, without character, cheat, to feel validated.
Or they simply don't respect or value the person they are dealing with, and in these case should just move on, and not be wasting other people's life with illusions. It's harming.
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