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 Why didn't he reach out and ask if it was ok? The story is not quite that simple.  
 That is a complaint you could have raised while contacting him, before taking legal action.

More generally it's never a good idea to build up frustration about someone or something and waiting for it to explode.
(not something I pretend to be great at either) 
 Because this whole thing might hurt you more than him