Oddbean new post about login | logout Probably just need more transparency in the clients, so that we can at least easily tell when it's hit the in/outboxes. Otherwise, you press send and it just gets swallowed up into nothingness until someone reacts or responds.
nostrudel has an activity log on the bottom left that shows you if you click on it how many sends succeeded to which relays, also coracle shows this in a popup at the top of the display that holds open while it waits for them to complete or timeout and then it lets you click on a details view but coracle doesn't show much feedback on the chat in the same way as notes, where nostrudel does many other clients are completely opaque about it