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 Some people feel differently, you cannot tell anyone how they should feel. 
And for the record I never implied that you were a troll. 
 I just wanted to express my good faith from the start 🫂😅

It’s true, you cannot tell anyone how they should feel. 

I’m pushing back on the gender aspect because this (can be) a very adversarial and blunt place on the internet - and it doesn’t do anyone justice when someone leaves and it gets boiled down to boys are mean to girls. 

Two people had a nasty, rude disagreement and unfortunately one of them left. I respect you standing up for your friend.