Yeah kind of. But he’d have to be Rip Taylor level gay to make sure there was no chance. And disciplining the other person’s kids is still disrespectful. 

 Only after a thorough check 🤣 

 makes it even more likely he's pronging her if you ask me

every gay i ever met (and i was friends with some too) had a propensity for faking appearances and little lies all day long

it's a personality disorder, the most mild one on the spectrum to Ted Bundy and Bill Gates 

 only if he chopped his penis off  

 Giving him the benefit of doubt, he's LARPing as a suburban dad, a role he's unlikely to gain himself.

That's still very disrespectful to the father of the family.

And I'm not giving her any free pass for him being gay. Very few women take a man's professed sexual preferences seriously, they typically want to believe that any man would "turn" just for them. 

 it makes it worst in my humble experience
life is also all appearances like it or not; even for the ignorant minds if you like, so for even those are there in the world nonetheless

have it the most ignorant view: the looks puts in dare the definition of manliness (if you like) and the definition of what the feminine may be attracted to. yes both takes are nonsense as they fail to tackle fundamentals rules of individualism that are out of hand right now (but read Merleau-Ponty about love at his work in perception), however these ideas (questions or doubts) arises no matter what, it takes to bit your lip and cope and deal and convince yourself of whatever you like

orthodoxy precisely helps bound alike situations, but then again the heat to discuss all of this can arise beyond the legible and the cool heads...