it makes it worst in my humble experience
life is also all appearances like it or not; even for the ignorant minds if you like, so for even those are there in the world nonetheless

have it the most ignorant view: the looks puts in dare the definition of manliness (if you like) and the definition of what the feminine may be attracted to. yes both takes are nonsense as they fail to tackle fundamentals rules of individualism that are out of hand right now (but read Merleau-Ponty about love at his work in perception), however these ideas (questions or doubts) arises no matter what, it takes to bit your lip and cope and deal and convince yourself of whatever you like

orthodoxy precisely helps bound alike situations, but then again the heat to discuss all of this can arise beyond the legible and the cool heads...