"Let yourself melt like butter, flow like honey,
Let all resistance and control dissolve away,
Let go of fighting, let go of fear,
There's nothing that can hurt you here, 
Nothing to lose, nothing to gain,
Without identity and attachment there is no pain,
Nothing to heal, nothing to do,
Simply let go of all that isn't you,
All of the challenges you've had to face,  
Will be washed away in the arms of grace,
Where you find love is the only thing that's true,
And it lives forever, as one with you."

~ Emily Jane

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 this is what it feels like to truly surrender to a good Woman. to be unguarded—vulnerable, to trust.
learning to let go and truly surrender is an exercise in courage. 

 I am glad you understand. Unfortunately I have only came across, with players and users. But I think there is a change in the wind. 😋 

 i'm sorry you've had to deal with those types, but it's good to know that you value your worth.
though, i must ask, why do you think there is a change in the wind??
that makes me curious. 

 Because I was confronted recently with another one and this time I was able to see beyond the facade and exit before being all trapped. For the dance to happen, I have to allow it. No judge or blame here. People are who they are and I don't blame him. But I have to accept the dance to be in it. And I won't allow it no more.  

 that is amazing and i'm so happy for you~! the fact that you recognize this and can act on it is a profound achievement. keeping your space clean and peaceful is the best way to have room for someone special if/when he appears. and if not, a clean space is a contented space.
good for you on asserting your boundaries.  ^____^