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purrs_for_Her | 25 days ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 i'm sorry you've had to deal with those types, but it's good to know that you value your worth.
though, i must ask, why do you think there is a change in the wind??
that makes me curious.
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Cristalina | 25 days ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Because I was confronted recently with another one and this time I was able to see beyond the facade and exit before being all trapped. For the dance to happen, I have to allow it. No judge or blame here. People are who they are and I don't blame him. But I have to accept the dance to be in it. And I won't allow it no more.
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purrs_for_Her | 25 days ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 that is amazing and i'm so happy for you~! the fact that you recognize this and can act on it is a profound achievement. keeping your space clean and peaceful is the best way to have room for someone special if/when he appears. and if not, a clean space is a contented space.
good for you on asserting your boundaries.  ^____^