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 Let people be wrong about you. It does not matter. It's not your job to make sure everyone's perceptions of you are accurate. Just be a good person and let them be wrong. 
 Agreed! 
 A good piece of knowledge i learned the other day said this 

 That every single person you meet has a perception and an idea about the person that you are outside of the perception and the idea of who you are and every single individual has a different one.

We categorize individuals based upon how they can service our own needs whether that being relationship or contextual or physical etc et cetera. 

Then we further break down that categorization and our perception of set individual by how our interactions that we have with them are it's quite the wild thing to sit and actually ponder about how others ponder about you 
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