I have no idea. I just got on nostr 2 wks ago. Still lost, but trying to learn
Apparently your client does only support kind-4 DMs. On NoStrudel you can stalk people. Try it out. Go to https://next.nostrudel.ninja/#/u/npub1zzmxvr9sw49lhzfx236aweurt8h5tmzjw7x3gfsazlgd8j64ql0sexw5wy and click the ghost top right.
do you see anything with mine if you try the ghost on my profile?
Your only (nip4) DM ever was a message received from Soap Miner. https://i.nostr.build/rk69BuN6vOna85qM.png
so does that mean everyone is using a giftwrap or a client that has implemented a certain nip? because i have way more dms than that
There is at least three nips. The third I had not mentioned before restricts DM delivery to only the involved parties, blocking me from obtaining these encrypted messages that are neither from nor to me.
Ty for answering my questions
You did receive 4 gift wraps however. That's how they call DMs that hide the sender using an ephemeral sender. https://i.nostr.build/4ofkeGW90vMVQlFW.png
Correction: "That's how they call a technique used to send DMs"