Your only (nip4) DM ever was a message received from Soap Miner. https://i.nostr.build/rk69BuN6vOna85qM.png
so does that mean everyone is using a giftwrap or a client that has implemented a certain nip? because i have way more dms than that
There is at least three nips. The third I had not mentioned before restricts DM delivery to only the involved parties, blocking me from obtaining these encrypted messages that are neither from nor to me.
Ty for answering my questions