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 I met my best friend in high school. it's been decades now. we've had periods of time where we saw each other daily and other times when we didn't talk to each other at all. 

The friends I spend the most time with now are through my husband. his bestie from college and his wife. his other college friends. Husband is much better at socializing and maintaining friendships. 

I met my husband pretty late in life and we met through online dating. So I guess that counts? 
 
 always interesting & fun to hear more about nostriches. ✨

what dating apps would you recommend? 
 oof I don't know anymore. I used OKCupid but I think that isn't good anymore. 

with online dating it is really important to write your profile to attract the kind of person you want to be with. also, good photos are important. 

I could go on and on about online dating tips tbh. most importantly, you have to know yourself and what kind of life you want to share with another person.  
 I found my husband on OkC too, but got off the site in the midst of Covid; they were starting to make some odd changes at the time, but as far as I know it’s still the best one. 
There’s a lot of room for improvement, but it did work for me and @boatingaccident 
 🙏  so nice that ok cupid worked out for you guys.  and now you’re both mothers.  🥰