@3967703f I especially hate it when they use it with regards to kids.  All they are saying is that kids learn to pretend they're ok and may take a lifetime before they are actually ok.

Resilience is living through things because you have no choice, not because you don't get scarred. 

 @d762e03c @3967703f May they muster the resiliency they'll need later in life when their resilient kids are unable or unwilling to be there for them.