nostr:npub189nhq0cw33243htm08c53vjvgc5letv7d9sgqtgqsn6fnx6dv8zs0fsatx I especially hate it when they use it with regards to kids.  All they are saying is that kids learn to pretend they're ok and may take a lifetime before they are actually ok.

Resilience is living through things because you have no choice, not because you don't get scarred.