Oddbean new post about login | logout I think I am not using relays correctly. Need suggestions.
You shouldn’t have to think about it
I dont understand... Why not?
because if you have to nostr fails for everyone except techies
We are def not at that stage yet... Way too many errors. Way too many relays. Way too many typos. Too many clients adding everything into NIP-65... Way too many people not knowing where their posts are.
You should check out Victor's relay guide. https://njump.me/naddr1qq9hyetvv9uj6um9w36hqq3qgcxzte5zlkncx26j68ez60fzkvtkm9e0vrwdcvsjakxf9mu9qewqxpqqqp65wjvcq4q
Are you on primal or amethyst? You have way too many inbox/outbox relays. If you are on Primal go to https://metadata.nostr.com/ log in, click relays and pick 3 that you are SURE to have all of your posts and mark them as WRITE. Then pick 3 (it can be the same) that ANYONE can write into (no paid relays) and select READ.
I use multiple clients but mostly nostrudel, primal and amethyst.
Ok, if you go to Amethyst, you will see 7-8 relays in inbox and Outbox. That's too much. Select 3 from Outbox trust to keep your posts. This could include paid relays. nostr.wine (if you are paying) is great here. Select 3 from Inbox that are open to anyone to post. nos.lol and nostr.mom are great here. For Private Inbox/DM relays add: - nos.lol - auth.nostr1.com - relay.0xchat.com Hit the Default button for Search to have better @tagging.