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 I heard that there is an ongoing movement now for people that truly care about decentralization and censorship-resistance to only publish to small relays.

I believe nostr:nprofile1qyfhwumn8ghj7ur4wfcxcetsv9njuetn9uq3wamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwwpexjmtpdshxuet59uq3zamnwvaz7te3xsczue3h0ghxjme0qqsgydql3q4ka27d9wnlrmus4tvkrnc8ftc4h8h5fgyln54gl0a7dgsc2k8v3  and nostr:nprofile1qyd8wumn8ghj7urewfsk66ty9enxjct5dfskvtnrdakj7qgewaehxw309aex2mrp0yh8xmn0wf6zuum0vd5kzmp0qythwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnswf5k6ctv9ehx2ap0qqsqfjg4mth7uwp307nng3z2em3ep2pxnljczzezg8j7dhf58ha7ejgz0easp  will adhere, but while they don't at least nostr:nprofile1qyd8wumn8ghj7urewfsk66ty9enxjct5dfskvtnrdakj7qgewaehxw309a5x7ervvfhkgtnwdaehgu339e3k7mf0qyfhwumn8ghj7ur4wfcxcetsv9njuetn9uq3qamnwvaz7tmwdaehgu3wd4hk6tcqyztuwzjyxe4x2dwpgken87tna2rdlhpd02va5cvvgrrywpddnr3jy5uqf05 , nostr:nprofile1qyd8wumn8ghj7urewfsk66ty9enxjct5dfskvtnrdakj7qgnwaehxw309ac82unsd3jhqct89ejhxtcpz9mhxue69uhnzdps9enrw73wd9hj7qpql2vyh47mk2p0qlsku7hg0vn29faehy9hy34ygaclpn66ukqp3afqgh57r7 , nostr:nprofile1qyfhwumn8ghj7ur4wfcxcetsv9njuetn9uq3kamnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwdehhxarjd93ksetn9ehhyee0qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7qpqutx00neqgqln72j22kej3ux7803c2k986henvvha4thuwfkper4s820ky4  and nostr:nprofile1qyf8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68yv339e3k7mf0qyw8wumn8ghj7cmgwf5hxarsd9kxctnwdaehgu339e3k7mf0qywhwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytndw46xjmnewaskcmr9wshxxmmd9uqzphtxf40yq9jr82xdd8cqtts5szqyx5tcndvaukhsvfmduetr85ce2wlgd0  have already started. 
 Also the people who should be reading this note won't see it, so what was the point? 
 hahahahhahaa

the ultimate circle-jerk 
 Yes join us in glorious filth and wasted energy, join us PABZ 
 I'm connecting to one relay, that you don't publish to or have permission on, and I'm still reading these notes. I feel like that's got to count for a level of decentralization. 
 It's true, but also in nostr your reach is unavoidable. Clients will faithfully propagate the notez 🎵🎶 and somehow nostr.band uses telepathy to find some relay it never should have had a reason to see 😂 
 mainly because clients don't fucking work 
 If it weren't for band, I'd be completely invisible. 
 Wine is my biggest relay.

You can see the volume/relay here:
https://stats.nostr.band/#relay_users 
 Even wine is completely dwarfed by stuff like nos.lol 
 MfW I realize that nobody can see this.
https://media1.tenor.com/m/PN6LWn4j7NoAAAAC/zooey-deschanel-new-girl.gif 
 Anyone I follow can add theforest.nostr1.com as a relay. Best relay content. Hosted by nostr:nprofile1qyd8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytn5dpjhxctdv43kzapwd9hj7qgmwaehxw309a6xsetxdaex2um59ehx7um5wgcjucm0d5hsz9thwden5te0wfjkccte9ejxzmt4wvhxjme0qqs8eseg5zxak2hal8umuaa7laxgxjyll9uhyxp86c522shn9gj8crsx9cel5  . 
 Thx, just did 🙏🏼 
 who should be reading this? 
 You have been quoted, message is seen if someone is willing to carry it further. 
 Do small relays become big relays? New here.. 
 Elastic is design can handle more connections

IF BECOMING BIG = MEANS CENTRALIZED hence avoid that relay 
 I didn't see this 

Thanks 
 Who will be " Relays  Associations labor Union Commrade /Chairman/President " ? Jack or fiatjaf 
 Has anyone seen a list of up-and-coming relays that we could start publishing to?

I'm happy to add a few on!

#asknostr #nostr

nostr:note1dc2drrmdmlkcyna5kkcv8yls4f8zaj82jjl00xrh2tmmhw3ejsmscu6nft  
 I'm still trying to figure out relays. Is the ultimate goal/solution to just have many more people running their own relays? If so, running relays would need to be A LOT easier, in my opinion. 
 No, very few people should be running relays. We have probably 10x more relays than we need right now. The point is that if one relay goes down or bans you, you have at least one other relay that can continue to serve all your stuff. This doesn't require self-hosting. 
 > very few people should be running relays. We have probably 10x more relays than we need right now

How does one calculate the optimal number of relays? 
 That's a great question, I don't know. Maybe it can't be answered, because it's dependent on a whole bunch of social factors, like how likely relay runners are to censor users, or what a given user's risk profile for censorship looks like.

In theory, 2 relays for the entire network is enough. But that introduces scaling issues and the possibility for them to cooperate in banning someone. My best guess is that at the network's current size, 5-10 hubs is probably enough, plus relays that support special use cases, like authenticated communities and archival relays. Nerds will run their own relays, which is fine, but it doesn't really benefit anyone as long as censorship or relay failure is only occasional. I guess what's most important is that 1. there are backups of important data, and 2. it's easy to create a new relay when one is needed. 
 I think a big part of the problem is that tech giants centralised TCP/IP to a point that big hosting companies can easily take part in censorship under the guise of regulatory pressure.

Self-hosted relays that are open are what we need - Better yet, nostr-client-intergrated-relays with meek or something of the like. No point in having multiple relays hosted by a singe company - That's still a high degree  of centralisation, even if spread around the globe.

Can't remember which one it was, but I recall a desktop Nostr app with a built-in relay service, going over a tor tunnel. I have a feeling that's where Lume announced it was headed in the future - And I think that's the right step to go. 

Nostr on websites is great from an accessibility perspective (hail PWAs I guess), but accessibility and censorship-resistance are not the same thing. I'd say anyone using nostr solely via websites is setting themselves up for trouble, at some point, somewhere, for some reason. 
 I think you're right that DNS, TLS certificates, and ISPs are all chokepoints. Maybe something like i2p bridges or something could overcome that. But that's not specific to nostr, so we have the help of the broader freedom tech community available to us. 
 I'm in! 
 Nobody can see this reply watch 
 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 
 👀 
 i’ll do it 
 Those will just become the new “big relays” soon then… just moves the goalposts. It doesn’t solve the problem.

I think the current model mixed with clients as relays & outbox model as the fallback for finding the relays you need to sync with is key. 🔑
nostr:note14qapnc4hk6hwpwf9f6f2ja33d55rqn0nd8jshnx55d4yz5l0nucs3nlrf3 
 I’m just gonna try to build it. No use in petitioning everyone, just like with GitNestr. One thing at a time though…

If it works well people can copy it to their clients. I’m sure we’ll run into hiccups along the way. Only way to find out is by coding it & experimenting first-hand. 
 how do you know if a relay is big or small? 
 mid 
 until you repost your first trump video to hate on it and then smurfville starts all over again... but for a brief moment. 🎈

instead of what you hate, what is interesting or original - 
 https://x.com/jack/status/1770567499018379268?s=20

Ask Musk to repost this to, do it publicly ;) 
 -dle class 
 enforced "mid" is fascism. and profoundly uninteresting. in my opinion - 
 Time response is a good meassure  
 No, it isn't. 
 Are we going to the cheapest relays that are charging sats? Or Free ones? Or Both! 😏

Currently using https://nostr.watch to have a look around. Cya's soon! 
 That is so cool 👌🏽 
 We're all introverts and moving to our own private relays. 
 What is considered small? I’m about as useful with tech as captain caveman but have my little Linux machine arriving next week finally and was gonna set up a relay (sorry…. Try to). Worth it? 
 this is good. thanks for doing the analysis which lead to this. 
 Current #nostr controversy.  Which side will you choose. Decentralize and continue to fight censorship or going back to the same data hoarding digital giants we were running from. #relaysize #gossip 
nostr:nevent1qqsxu9x33akalmvzf76ttvxrj0c25n3wer4ff0hhnpm49aamhguegdcpz4mhxue69uhhqatjwpkx2un9d3shjtnrdaksygpm7rrrljungc6q0tuh5hj7ue863q73qlheu4vywtzwhx42a7j9n5psgqqqqqqsjujeqd 
 Where is a list of small relays? 
And how to discriminate good / bad relays in general, regardless the size?  
 Coracle lists relays and shows how many people you follow are on each. It also drops the top few to encourage network decentralization. 
 That's... that would be great. I see nothing here 🤔  

https://m.primal.net/HmzP.png  
 Scroll down to "other relays" 
 How do you feel being such a hero? 
 Heavy is the head that wears the crown 
 REQUEST UNCLEAR.

MAYBE WE SHOULD RIP A DISPATCH TO DISCUSS THIS. 
 Let’s hear this discussion! 
 DO IT 
 YES, THIS STUFF IS VERY IMPORTANT 
 YES PLS 
 I'm down to listen in. Let's do it. 
 I’d be interested. 
 YES 
 Yes please! 
 Don’t forget to tell the plebs how to fund stuff so it doesn’t all just go quiet.  
 Find! 
 LET'S MAKE IT HAPPEN.  @fiatjaf tá confuso pra caralho esse bagulho 🫡 
 I pushed for this early on, butt the purple cats kept saying it was stupid and it will make the network worse.  Are we still using strfry? 
 I would like to be able to publish to > 100 relays. Can this ever be possible without using a blastr? 
 No, but why? Do you want to pay 100 relays to hold your notes? Broadcast is digital squatting, made possible only by taking advantage of hobbyist relay operators. 
 Yeah, blastr wrote my German-language notes someplace in deepest Siberia, or something. 
 Server operators should decisively decide what they will store, and what they will actually relay to other servers.  One way to reduce server operating costs is to reduce the excessive amounts of network bandwidth consumed on retrieving duplicate notes across multiple servers.  This is going to break down if users have to alacarte subscribe to multiple relays just to see the posts in their connection circles 
 We need broad adoption of strfry negentropy inter-relay note rectification protocol for this to work. 

We need mid and small relays. Smalls talk to a few mids to limit data and rectify a smaller set of notes follows/followers of follows/followers and maybe some subscribed hash tags. Mids talk mainly to other mids and a unique groups of smalls and rectify a larger set of the follows/followers of follows/followers and hash tags of connected small relays.

I think a system with built in economics will create an incentivized, sustainable, durable, and decentralized network. Ecash attached to notes signed to relay keys is a possible economic model. Smalls collect ecash from users and pay to mids for updates. Network congestion could lead to these fees becoming dynamic. The alpha in the fees becomes the operational budget of small and mid relays. Federations of mids could group into fedimints or run their own cashu mints for settling balances and allowing lightning withdrawals.  
 How can you tell a relays size? 
 It depends on what you mean by "size". There's WoT size, which is where more people you follow post to a given relay:

https://i.nostr.build/Q778K.png

There are also relay monitoring systems like nostr.watch that are working on a system for reporting how many active users are on a relay, along with other metrics. 
 What’s your relay list? 
 https://i.nostr.build/WGGPv.png 
 That’ll do it.

Thanks, Hodlbod. 
 Any relay recommendations for noobs who want to understand how to choose?

https://media.tenor.com/SSkPUSsG6iUAAAAC/why-penguin.gif
 
 Coracle has a list of relays ranked by how many people you follow publish to them. nostr.watch might also be useful. 
 Thank you! 🫶 
 https://nostr.watch is what I used. Used a bunch paid and bunch free. Tried to use different countries as much as I could. 
 Thanks! 
 The relay does not matter. If want to post "forbbiden" content Just use tor before you real connection and thats it.  
 🫂🍻 
 1. “Use nostr its decentralized”. 
2. “Only use small relays on nostr if you want real decentralization”
3. “Only use small relays on nostr that you know …” 
 Could there be a relay list that appears when we try to add relays while setting the network of a client?! 
 Eventual consistency 
 Always ADHERE to Presidents ORders 
 Be ungovernable! 
 Yay, we're follow frens again. ☺️ 
 Cant achieve decentralization through good will, only good incentives 
 Hey, me too. 
 Self-hosting certainly doesn't hurt 
 I wrote it. 
 What I meant is that my browser doesn't like 100 websockets I think. 
 And my phone... sheesh 
 And my phone... sheesh 
 Like... a.... blastr? 
 Btw, since I think I was first (really not sure and idgaf!), can I reappropriate the original name again? 

multiplexer 
 Btw, since I think I was first (really not sure and idgaf!), can I reappropriate the original name again? 

multiplexer 
 Is there a relay that's also a relay proxy? Like, I throw the relay some sats and it opens those 100 websockets with appropriate filters. Maybe also a blastr? fan in: left hand. fan out: right hand. Fan in... fan out... fan in... 
 client could also keep publishing a mempool to many relays rotating through them while the user keeps doomscrolling or something... 
 I thought we had agreed to call it "outbox"! 
 Fix it for you 
 *fixed 
 Thank you.