Coracle has a list of relays ranked by how many people you follow publish to them. nostr.watch might also be useful. 

 Thank you! 🫶 

 https://nostr.watch is what I used. Used a bunch paid and bunch free. Tried to use different countries as much as I could. 

 Thanks! 

 The relay does not matter. If want to post "forbbiden" content Just use tor before you real connection and thats it.