Oddbean

This question is for the guys. What is your opinion about women who talk about their sex life with their boyfriend to other women? Why do they do that? Is it disrespectful? #questions #asknostr

I can’t speak for everyone. In middle school you learn to deal with it (not necessarily sex but rather that the intimacies of your relationship are likely shared with her friends). It can be a bitch/wielded against you in some instances. But otherwise I think chickens tend to roost ;)

I think it can be disrespectful or not. My wife is proud of our sex life and sometimes makes supporting provocative comments in public social settings regarding her satisfaction. I enjoy knowing that she is pleased. While I’m sure I have shortcomings as well, I think that discussions regarding shortcomings should be inquisitive and geared toward solutions rather than mean spirited complaining. When you love someone you look for approaches to solutions for problems from diverse peers, not shame for the person you love from those peers.

Nope. Not anything specific, anyway. I prefer to keep things like that between my partner and myself. Though, I guess an exception is that I prefer to have as mature a conversation as possible with a prospective new partner to make sure that there's no red flags. There are some things that I'll simply refuse to do, and much of that comes from prior experience so, it would come up in that context. I hope that makes at least a bit of sense

To be catty, and to one up the others in a sexual or general sense. Woman mentality, don't care much for it. Men do it too obviously, so it's more a psychological phenomenon rather than one that's sex-based (biological).

Depends how the conversation goes if the womans talking to her girlfriends like omg his dicks so good the way he yadayada. I think your either 1 trying to encourage your friends to try him, 2 maybe possibly trying to encourage a 3sum, or 3 you're just seeking attention. As a guy almost every guy I know in person pretty much keeps it to himself. We don't talk about it pretty much because everyone knows what it is & does it so theres really nothing to say. The most a conversation would ever go is like this. G1: How you doing today man? G2: Better now that I got that bj earlier. G1: Nice! That's it theres nothing else. Even if we had some super type of couchy that makes you see stars we wouldn't talk about it. Guys would be concerned that other guys try to take their girl. Can't say I never met guys who were the opposite yeah they exist. I've had discussion with guys about those type of guys in multiple locations including online. Performing my own form of a census asking the question there is more then a good fair amount of guys who think of the type of guy who brags about how good the sex was either putting the pussy on the pedestial or wondering if the dude bragging is trying to tell him to fuck his girl. Guys who may say no to that cmon don't front like you never had one of yo boys talk to you like awh man I got the best bj ever she suck so good the pussy so tight, big lips, juicy tits. You be looking at yo boy like bro do you want me to fuck your girl or something?

Discussing your partner's sexual performance with your mates is disrespectful. If both parties are fine with it then whatever though. As to why they do it, I don't know, maybe to compare notes? lol you tell me!

I agree. I'm private with that. From my experience, women only went into detail to talk about how much he sucks in bed, has a small dick, make fun and to humiliate the guy. They don't respect the guy they are with. In my opinion, it's their way of telling other women that he isn't a real man. It's belittling. They don't do this with men they respect.