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 It can be, but, in my cases, I haven't really minded it since it's been overwhelmingly positive. Or so I've been told.  
 Interesting. Do you share the details with your guy friends? 
 Nope. Not anything specific, anyway. I prefer to keep things like that between my partner and myself. Though, I guess an exception is that I prefer to have as mature a conversation as possible with a prospective new partner to make sure that there's no red flags. There are some things that I'll simply refuse to do, and much of that comes from prior experience so, it would come up in that context. I hope that makes at least a bit of sense  
 It makes sense 
 Cool. Sometimes it's hard for me to be succinct.