Agree with all this but one caveat. Fucking cars. Once you have kids that drive, car issues will drive you mad. 
“Why the fuck didn’t you tell me the oil light was on in your car that now won’t start?”
“Both headlights are out?  How does that happen?
“Do you aim at potholes?  wtf is the matter with you?  How do 2 tires just explode like that?” 

 I’m gonna have four teenage girls in a decade so I’m really hoping self driving is ubiquitous at that time lol 😂 

 Keep dreaming. 
And they will still find a way to fuck up those self driving things. Just wait. 
Meditate now. Patience needed. It’s broken stronger men. 😎 

 Got 5 teenagers right now and 3 are driving age so it's terrifying. 

 Scariest thing in the world. No exaggeration at all. 

 remember back to our driving days!  i know this does not help, sry! 

 Oh yeah! It was a manual 6 speed Toyota Celica 💜 

 fun car & remember it well 

 i was thinking 5 speed though, maybe a different model or could be i need a new brain  

 You might be right, might have been a 5 speed. Early 80's model, good times. 

 t-y for sharing HODL!   & making me feel it!     lol 

 Just got here, lol 

 Kids; car banging is a phase they will probably outgrow ime!    good luck though & allthebest!