It’s is absolutely brutal. Romanticism and social media have poisoned people’s expectation of a life partner. And yes, it makes sense to me that it’s much more efficient if women take a small first step, I wouldn’t be with the love of my life today if I hadn’t done that. 

 Ohhh story time! Tell us what step you took. https://image.nostr.build/fbb744159655502ad55e34b20299efa13780719c1494296148cfc32add3b9ad1.gif  

 Just a very thoughtful, curious, inviting DM after we had interacted publicly on very important topics. 😊 The rest is history. 💘 

 Sounds like you guys met in college 

 Nope. 😊 

 🤣 

 I want to hear your side of the story too. I always find that women remember things differently 😂