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 ❤️ Peace be with you! 
 💛 “The Redux: If Not Now, White Folks, When?”

I’m not a fan of the term “ally” as it has a performative ring. It implies doing as opposed to being. But I’ve come to accept the word as a metonym for a larger concept: good people. Better people.
—@066263a7

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#BlackMastodon #Activism #Allyship #Racism  

https://www.ohfweekly.org/vol-5-no-34/ 
 A friend is having open heart surgery next week. Why? COVID. 
 @3967703f Oh my goodness. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Yeah we’re all good, a ne... 
 @be7434a2 Very nice!! 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Lemmy. There’s a team of ... 
 @be7434a2 Largest. In. The World?? That’s impressive! Congratulations! I’m going to have to check that out. Fam’s good? 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Good morning Clay! I’ve b... 
 @be7434a2 Good to hear that thing are well in your corner of the world. Living life in the fast lane here. Finally catching a breather, I believe. Fall/autumn is teasing its  welcome arrival. How’s that other project/server thing you were working on? I forget the exact name. 
 @be7434a2 What’s up, man? 
 💛 “With Allyship, It’s Best if You Do You”

One question people ask when they decide to advocate for racial equity and inclusion is: Where do I start? People assume they must conceal their mild-mannered Clark Kent or Diana Prince persona and become the Superman or Wonder Woman of allyship.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
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#Allyship #RacialEquity 

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https://www.ohfweekly.org/vol-5-no-35/ 
 ❤️ Peace be with you! 
 @3967703f Welcome back to junior high and other childhood experiences. 
 @3967703f Firsts and onlys. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj No idea.🤷🏾‍♀️ 
 @3967703f Welcome back to junior high and other childhood experiences. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Yep. They're absent. I've b... 
 @3967703f [hard swallow] Still clinging to x, I suppose? 
 @3967703f Is it my imagination or just because it’s Saturday that it feels like a lot of the Black voices I’m used to seeing are kinda absent? Maybe they’ve had family demands of their time. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj 😃 I've been doing a a ba... 
 @3967703f Half a year?! That’s FANTASTIC. I’d settle for that any day ... uh ... year. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Yep. That's it in a nutshel... 
 @3967703f Yeah ... I see my dreams of pulling a Baldwin and moving to France setting sail without me. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Thank you.❤️ Might just... 
 @3967703f I hope you do. I mean it. Just with my “mild” caregiving requirements, I know it’s demanding and not for the faint of heart. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj People are a mess.🙄 
 @3967703f Aren’t they, though. 😂 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Ideas for the new rules we'... 
 @3967703f From your mouth to God’s ear. LOL! 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Hey! Hope all is well with ... 
 @3967703f OH, MY GOODNESS. That’s terrible. I can’t imagine the stress for everyone. So glad he’s doing better. Mom’s good. Very good, thanks. She didn’t get COVID while I had it, so that’s a very good thing. Am out of an all-consuming project, so feeling more human. 
 @3967703f If you need a non-family ear for venting or listening, you know how to reach me. ❤️ 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj Only for about  3-4months a... 
 @46cd5609 Gotcha.

So wearing a STILL a good idea in those tight, crowded spaces, eh?

Finally surrendered my “last man standing” card and contracted COVID a month ago. Much better now. 
 @46cd5609 Greetings, Doc! Still loving your posts. Thanks.

Question: Is “natural immunity” a real thing after having COVID? 
 @3967703f Greetings. How’s things on your end? Any new adventures? 
 First block of the day at 7:57am. 
 The penalty for shutting the government down should be 1 month without salary for each day it's c... 
 @3967703f I like that idea a lot. A whole lot. But it’d take an act of God to bring that one to fruition. 
 nostr:npub1qe3x8fa4hxn7ry9ghe9e8p4khffvsdjmt9jjjg3nh8p9chu8q7wqtyy8hj omg! This age thing is some... 
 @3967703f 😂😂😂
Let me tell you ... I have never been a lightweight drinker, but five years ago my resistance to alcohol dropped precipitously. My limit is TWO adult beverages. Anything after that, I can’t vouch for may or did happen. 
 I thought I was hung over, but it was actually a reaction to the rather large ice cream I ate las... 
 @3967703f Boo... So sorry. 
 💛 “10 Steps to Being an Ally to Marginalized Groups”

Being an ally shouldn’t be a badge someone wears, like liberal street cred. It’s fundamentally a way of seeing the world in which you understand that every person is deserving of the same human rights and a chance to succeed in life.
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https://www.ohfweekly.org/vol-5-no-33/ 
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 @3967703f NO ONE does. We have a family friend who is 103, and her longevity is a testament to the caregiving and attention to her needs primarily by one of her four daughters. And it’s fallen to her due to proximity. On the one hand, yes it’s an honor and the right thing to do. On the other, it can be all-consuming. (unintentional preaching to the choir) 
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 @46cd5609 
Thanks so much, I appreciate it. Really. Living highly at-risk family members really had me worried. But all’s well and no one else got it. 

Really do appreciate your updates. Thank you!