I’m gonna slide in here to say, you should probably be spending more of your time off Nostr. I love it. I think it’s great. I’ve formed wonderful relationships through Nostr. No social media should replace real world interactions. Go touch grass.
Everyone has to find the right balance. My point is that if a person is hardly ever on Nostr, then they shouldn't be surprised that they're not finding meaningful interactions on Nostr. Good for them if they're finding that elsewhere, online or offline, but the reason is not that Nostr isn't working for them. They're simply not investing any time into it.