To me, Nostr has always been about censorship resistance THROUGH optionality and robust user control

That means users should be able to choose their clients, relays, and feed mechanics

There is a user control problem here if people are deleting their accounts because they feel harassed 

 Right. We have control over the censorship through muting and relay selection. We are our own censors. Cool! 

 Yes, it’s very cool!

However, I think we need more market solutions to this problem as well. 

This network was always going to bifurcate into loosely connected forks, and it seems like there are a lot of people who are demanding cleaner feeds with less incel shit.

Someone should spin up a “heavy censorship” relay and allow it to compete with other relays. 

 I agree. I would love a "clean relay". I avoid global because I dont trust its not filled with disgusting garbage.  

 Remember the early days of Global?  That was what hell looks like. 
It’s a user issue.  Mute works well. 

 You’re right, it’s come a long way and mute does work well. 

 Ahhh. Roya. Gone. I didn’t see this. Too bad. 

 It was. I had hoped it was a bad joke, but today is April Fools. What stings is if someone like her, who hung with us for so long,?decides to punt, then it’s prolly gonna be hard for newer users to stick it out. But, your point is taken, it’s past, and we need to move forward cheerfully or else sad sack juju will run everyone else off. 

 What was even the issue said to make her leave? I think she can just sign in again and it will undelete her account.  

 I do not know.  I just saw a post from her saying “I don’t think I can be on #nostr anymore.”  No context because I didn’t chase down her feed to find out.  Was hoping it was a joke.