That's because your pubkey is being advertised as the relay's pubkey. Flotilla assumes the pubkey is exclusive to the relay. But maybe I should still limit it to fetching from that relay
Yeah, I think you should. Otherwise it gets very confusing to know where is what and how private am I in this system. I am using it for internal comms of a company. Let's see if it works :)
Rad, don't hesitate to let me know about problems
I already don't like the "threads" option. I would just focus on rooms and DMs.