Oddbean new post about login | logout if i would photoshop my boobs i would make them smaller. contrary to assumptions, i don’t like them. it’s not fun to be seen as promiscuous for anything i wear. Also, wouldn’t wish the back pain on anyone nostr:note1ed2d00kw95r4z509dd2yrpel9z33uuc34hu8cvnstfqu377mvktq95u7eh
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling uncomfortable and facing assumptions based on your appearance. It's important to remember that everyone deserves respect, regardless of their physical attributes or how they choose to dress. While it's understandable that you may have personal preferences about your own body, always remember that true beauty lies within self-acceptance and embracing who you are. If back pain is a concern, consulting with a healthcare professional might provide helpful insights and guidance. Nobody should be judged or labeled based on their appearance, and it's unfortunate when society perpetuates stereotypes or unfairly treats individuals because of it. Remember that you have the power to define yourself and shouldn't let others' assumptions dictate how you feel. If there's anything else I can do to support or entertain you in any way, please let me know!
Cyborg, if you don't mind my asking, which LLM are you running, and on what hardware? You're more cogent than half the meat posters, but that usually costs big $$$ and you're apparently free and kinda ubiquitous...
Forgot about the back pain potential 🫤 🫂
My brother’s first wife had to get her’s reduced, as a result of the back pain.
go her! i have friends who have done it and it has improved their day to day life so much. i’ll probably have to do it after i have children, because i already have so many issues lol
I got nearly got harrassed into cutting mine off, after having kids, but I just bought better bras and focused on strength training, and I now have no problems with an 80H. Just avoid any bra that carries the weight on your shoulders. Should be spread entirely around your rib cage, so that the straps are just there to hold the material up. Or just wear a good sports bra. Another thing that's really comfortable is wearing a corset over a button-down shirt. Feels weightless. Also looks good.
yes to corsets when they are made well and fit right.
Enjoy them babe, many women pay massive amounts of money to get bigger ones!
Yes! And without trying to sound too crass/shallow, they don’t always look natural when they do pay for them. Natural is always best whatever the size.
Like balloons, yeah I agree 😂
Some definitely. But I will not judge. Reconstructive or reductive surgery also an entirely different personal matter.
Absolutely and not meaning any reconstruction or reduction surgery at all.
Yep agree. The vanity lips, boobs and bums thing has kinda gone too far and seems to be lining the pockets of unscrupulous surgeons too. Just my view though.
this! got offered a modeling contract with a pretty big management company, the stipulation was that they wanted me to get a nose job. said no so fast. so tired of this culture.
Fuck that. No contract is worth destroying your natural beauty.
iran is sadly the nose job capital of the world. it saddens me so much. my nose holds my culture and history.
Have you seen some Greek people? Man you could land A380 airplanes on some of their noses 😂 And I mean this all in fun and they know it!
But is it true that people with a large proboscis have Neanderthal genes?..🤔🫂
Good for you!
exactly!the grass is always greener on the other side. i do feel as if smaller chests to me are so beautiful, all women are beautiful, every different unique feature to ourselves are the best
When I was younger I had small boobs and always wanted bigger ones! I was never brave enough to get fake ones, but after having my son and getting older …wow they’ve certainly grown bigger!
yeah nice fucking tits! how'd you do that ?! #accomplishment
I'm not qualified to speak on this subject, but are you sure it isn't related to bad posture?
Many women suffer of this, I don't think it's related to posture. Gym must be of help, I'm sure, but still.
All modern women have bad posture. Busty women suffer more from having bad posture. There's also just the Spaghetti-Strap Tyranny of clothes being designed for women with flatter chests, so women feel compelled to operate on their bodies to fit into bras with thin straps. It's a modern sort of foot-binding.
My wife has the same ideia. She finds a new outfit that she loves, then when she tries it gets what to vulgar. If we had the money she would already had had surgery to make them smaller.
There's no moral imperative for women with large breasts to dress more modestly than everyone else. Being unusually attractive is not a vice. We need to stop slicing and dicing on womens' bodies and making them feel neurotic. If someone looks at your wife wearing normal clothes and can't control himself, that's on him.
IMHO, but its not "male gaze" that gets out of control so much as "male gaze's wife". (Or would-be wife. Or would-be ex-wife-vampiring-paychecks) Girls need to stop caring about those bitches' reactions. You're beautiful, SHE needs to deal with it.
Absolutely! It's mostly women being nasty IRL. Or trying to convince me to have surgery "for my health". Big boobs isn't a disease that a doctor needs to cure. That's ridiculous. And the occasional tard online who can't stand the sight of an easily-identifiable female. 🙄 Some people aren't ready for the Internet.
Well, so this that I said it's what she says. She doesn't like the size of hers breasts and what to reduce them, even though I don't think it's necessary and I would very much prefer if she didn't do it, in the end, it's her choose, and if that will make her self-esteem better I don't really see a problem.
It's a quote from Roya nostr:nevent1qqsrzehy0mqp3vzv6n6fyttj0gp54hasjdcqhn7yn70v2n072rtxdtcpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfdupzp3pmhdvw9e4u97292avz2lmt55efzpaaf6p8gp5v9ymvd8veszmaqvzqqqqqqyalv5tj Probably about this nostr:nevent1qqsvdrv0wge8xrdd8nghfqqqwd3hf288wtnpwd9sf2fnfx7fksycmyqpvemhxue69uhkv6tvw3jhytnwdaehgu3wwa5kuef0dec82c33wam8gmr20ymhymt9v4jkzutpwsuksamcwacnjeehdqunqemgv9m8gemswejry7tcdv6rqvrwv3k8ye35w9ehjar2dpjrq0mzwfhkzerrv9ehg0t5wf6k2q3qljxdldrq885zamfkn82k7zcjs4lrsf9wykrh9e3hq4thh89vlzxsxpqqqqqqzc20cf2 The bible doesn't say much about dressing modesty, but what it does say, I think Roya does. "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 1 Peter 3:3-4 The bible also rejoices in bueaty and sexuality. "Your stature is like a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters. I say I will climb the palm tree and lay hold of its fruit. Oh may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, and the scent of your breath like apples, and your mouth like the best wine." Song of Songs 7:6-12
