@b541bfe5 @c5dffaf5 A good test for whether a term is really gender neutral is to use it in the phrase “I like to have sex with…”. A hetero man who uses “guys” or “dudes” as a gender neutral term would still be unlikely to say  “I like to have sex with guys”. 

 @223cead5 @c5dffaf5 

That's a great test!