nostr:npub1k4qmle0sq0u0fwfz8l7zr85j3ag07z0v3lzj7xrkz5v6sfxdd00ss73lsq nostr:npub1ch0l4ag8q7c0er7zzeqa68tnhqvvrxpwyu9s5u3hw2j5c3735x0sf77gec A good test for whether a term is really gender neutral is to use it in the phrase “I like to have sex with…”. A hetero man who uses “guys” or “dudes” as a gender neutral term would still be unlikely to say  “I like to have sex with guys”.