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corndalorian | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 My general rule is no posts or replies for a month. I figure at that point it’s clear that nostr isn’t really a priority for them. With very few exceptions, I want to follow users who are consistently active. And very large follow lists seem to cause problems with user experience, so me following an inactive npub is essentially like dragging around dead weight from relay to relay. 

But I also make exceptions to my 1 month rule, such as if I know we never engage with each other, or if they’re a little bitch ass hoe, etc.
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node | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 Little bitch ass hoe 😂😂😂
If I lower to 1-2 months I’ll get under 1K easy. 🫡
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corndalorian | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 Most days I have a limited amount of time to spend on nostr. No time for little bitch ass hoes in my timeline or notifications 😂 
To be fair, I chose 1 month somewhat arbitrarily but it’s been my consistent guideline. I figure it’s normal for people to take time to unplug, go on vacation, get busy with projects, etc. A week or two offline, to me that seems normal. But if it starts pushing towards a month or more, then to me it seems like you’ve got better things to do, and that’s perfectly fine and your prerogative, but I don’t want that npub being dead weight, that’s all.