Not all lightning apps support NWC (nostr wallet connect) I believe you would be able to use @Alby dand combine that with @ZEUS on your phone, use the Zeus app to check outgoing and incoming payments. But that is a custodial way, not sure if you’re into that. I think (for me) that would be an easy way. Also there’s @Mutiny Wallet wallet, that should work too (not sure tbh) Hopefully this will help you out?