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 What's your opinion on marital rape? How in the mother of fuck is it possible to rape your own wife? 
 well ... i guess it is time to reveal ( ok it was never a secret ) that i am not really pro-marriage.  @Prince Aleph 

if you believe in marriage then you must marry a virgin at puberty and she can't refuse sex.  anything less is not real marriage - just LARP.

do we need marriage ?  the biggest argument in favor of marriage IMO is the fact that number of men and women born is almost exactly equal - this seems to suggest that we as a species are meant to form long term relationships in order to raise children together.  it can be very different for other species, for example ants: 

https://theconversation.com/six-amazing-facts-you-need-to-know-about-ants-100478

and yet perhaps this is just one interpretation - and an alternative interpretation is that only alphas should breed women, while betas should become faggot workers.

perhaps homosexuality is an adaptation that allows inferior men to remove themselves from the gene pool.  perhaps we actually need faggotry to purify our blood lines ! 
 you know how men rate vast majority of young women attractive ... but women only rate a small minority of men as attractive ?  incels argue that this is proof that women are delusional. 

but that's not the correct explanation.  in reality the average girl would rather share one Alpha Chad with 5 other girls than than have an Incel all to herself.  this is why girls only need to find 1 in 5 men attractive.

when you look at it this way maybe marriage is not the right solution for the problem.

i don't know what the right solution is.

in fact maybe the government is the right solution ( this would make humanity like the ant colony, or the BORG ) ... however an ant colony is founded by the queen, who is also the mother of every single ant in the colony ... whereas our government is run by FILTHY KIKES who want us all dead.

BIG DIFFERENCE.

@Prince Aleph  
 Fathers should be the ones picking husbands for their daughters. These bitches should never be allowed to choose their husband. They pick the absolute worst guys to mate with.  
 women always pick the most powerful man because from evolution perspective their offspring has the best chance if it is powerful.

just like men think with our dicks so women also do not think with their heads.

our DNA does the thinking for us. 
 a woman doesn't see a serial killer - she just sees a dominant man.

a woman will always choose a dominant man over a pushover.

same as a man will always choose a beautiful girl over an ugly one even if the beautiful girl is a total cunt and the ugly one has a heart of gold.

stop trying to act like only females are irrational when picking mates. 
 Then why didn't these bitches picked Elliot Rodger. He's a mass murderer.  
 because he was a virgin. 
 in PUA Game terminology this is called "pre-selection"

women only want men who are desired by other women 

this is why it is so hard to lose your virginity - it's like getting your first job without having any experience on your resume

women want proof that you are worth dating and the only proof of that is having lots of other women both currently and in the past  
 More proof that foids are nothing but adult children who can't comprehend the consequences of their actions.  
 That's it? Not because he's a half breed mutt.  
 well arguably being a half breed is what made him a virgin.

but if he managed to somehow break the vicious circle of virginity maybe he could have made it.

hard to say i mean if he had a 3" penis maybe it wouldn't be realistic for him to maintain a "rotation" of hoes. 
 They literally pick men based off looks and height. Not because they are intelligent, can adapt/survive. There are times when being tall can be a disadvantage. It requires large consumption of food and you stick out easily.  
 that is simply not true.  i am 5'10.5" and girls prefer me to guys who are 6'4" because i'm more Alpha. 
 Sure buddy. Any guy who calls himself an alpha is a massive cuck.  
 ok let me rephrase - because they THINK i'm more Alpha.

again, girls don't actually know anything, that is why they can be manipulated.

all else being equal a taller man appears more powerful and dominant which is what women are after.

but all else is not equal and if the woman sees that you dominate the taller guy then she will pick you.

it should be easier for a tall guy to be confident and strong but that doesn't mean that every tall guy is.  many of them are easily cucked. 
 your statement  ( how things should be ) is prescriptive.

my statements ( how things are ) are descriptive.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Is%E2%80%93ought_problem

reality is you can't say how things should be unless there is a goal we can all agree on that your suggested solution is trying to help achieve

yet you never bothered to define such a goal - you're just rationalizing your own desires by saying the world should serve your personal interests over those of literally everybody else 

at the same time you do absolutely nothing to move the world in that direction other than constantly repeating what you want every day on 20 different forums hoping that through sheer repetition people will accept your point of view

and to be fair that is how most people accept ideas - by having these ideas repeated to them over and over 

but it works better on small children and you're telling your ideas to adults