Yeah I usually only check it once a day. Have you tried browsing your feed with Coracle? It mixes things up if you include replies which should be on my default. It mixes things up cause new replies to old notes brings the thread back into your feed. Damus has this too, but it’s a lot better in Coracle because you get to see some context because of the way Coracle displays threads. 

 havent checked out coracle but will now! cheers!