Ryan, you don't know me but I need someone who speaks relays. I am running a private one via Start9 but couldn't prove it is actually logging my posts. Any advice? 

 Try using the nostrudel client.  It has a lot of powerful tools now that it did not have a year ago.   

 Try using the nostrudel client.  It has a lot of powerful tools now that it did not have a year ago.   nostr.fmt.wiz.biz