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 It mostly sucks these days. Being ghosted, friendzoned or just outright exploited is all too common.  
 It’s very painful sometimes, but I’ve come to love it ❤️‍🔥 it can be inspiring. Also makes it easier to see who’s really for you and who isn’t 🫂 
 Yup. I suppose you're correct.  
 No, she isn't. 
 I completely agree with this. Stereotypes play too large a role nowadays when choosing a partner. But, it's not true love and I fear fewer and fewer will never have the chance to experience it if they don't rid themselves of the outright stupid expectations that these stereotypes have embedded into society.