Oddbean new post about login | logout is it a gender thing? 😹 I don’t think it’s a gender thing nostr:note1g8qcyz7s7765n0cxr6kt4cucmul2de7zmc55mc8r7g7wvtdk28esr0mtme
False dichtomy. Talk about it, get advice, think about it, do something about it.
It’s absolutely a gender thing.
There's a gendered component, for sure, but this is also solid advice for most women, most of the time. There's just even less cultural support for that.
🤔so do you mean statistically woman can benefit from therapy for low self esteem but man cannot I feel for most human being the comfort getting from therapy is “fake”and the comfort getting from building something is real🫣why gender is a a factor here
I think I agree with you then. Women just seem to like therapy for some reason and since I am not a woman I don’t presume to tell women therapy is probably not the answer they are looking for. With men though I’m sure I’m right 9/10 times.
Idk, I used a therapist couple times and it helped get me pointed in the right direction and screw my head on straight. But in general I agree, build a fence or something
Well I think you are the person who finally make the decision to move. Even you didn’t go therapist there might be other trigger because you are you. My not mature opinion 😄 Therapy in my experience is more like an expensive cosplay game Does game help make people feel better? Yes. Does it solve real problem , no