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 When first nostr wedding live on zap.stream ? 
 Ughhh it ALMOST could have been us. I was just a little bit late swallowing that purple pill 
 You would always get your vows renewed 😆 
 Oh shit. That is GENUIS! At a conference or what? 
 Personally I'm a cheap fuck and a guy who would just do it in their back yard, live stream it zap.stream and call it a day 😆 but from my understanding, it's a ceremony that women want everyone to see and witness 😂. 

It's probably why I'm single 😆 
 That’s where ours was! My parent’s backyard, I wore crocs 😂 
 And hes said #YEStr? Woah lucky lol 
 It took about a year of harassing him daily with links to rings I wanted, but eventually I wore him down 
 Tell me they were only puzzle rings 
 Nahh the actual ring was pretty nice, but we saved in other areas 😂😂😂 
 one day she will wake up and see her ring was replaced with a puzzle ring 
 Or pawned for corn 😭 
 He would never, do it.





Without asking 
 Vice versa. Lmao 
 Its been a fake since the end of 22 lol 
 Omfg I really should test it 
 I just wanted to be married and have a pretty ring. The wedding I didn’t give to fucks about 
 Well nostr:nprofile1qqs9phjf9nl9guj9phc6q9m0makezh5hedwelrf7enhh6f0lp2y8rhsprdmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68yenjv4skkuewvdhk66jqsh5is one lucky pleb.  
 We both are! Money should be put towards something useful, like a house 😂 not one night 
 Two* 
 Respect. 🫡 
 Surely someone is planning one now 🤣

I can understand why some might choose this way. “Influencers” could use some of the zaps to donate to charity or to build freedom technology.   That could be good. Anyone can make their individual choices. 

My immediate thought was, I find the idea of my own (eventual) wedding becoming a zap-stream repugnant. The constant pursuit of commercialism has corrupted most things. Some things should remain sacred. The idea of speaking my vows shouldn’t be broadcast to the world. Probably. Not that I will ever pursue the route to become an influencer so this is all hypothetical 🤣😆🌺 
 Technically a vow is a declaration to the world your love and commitment to another human. Pretty sure it should be broadcasted to the world 😆  
 True. You make a valid point. Again, this is all hypothetical as I’m not even engaged.

This would be something I’d have to discuss with future spouse. Their choice must be known. I’d never marry someone who doesn’t see me as an equal so obviously I’d give future partner the same respect. 

Interesting discussion. 🙏