It’s much easier and widely accepted to be a victim. There is no honor in it tho, and it’s shameful .
There is a reason why society promotes this. They want us to be miserable and slaves
People are scared of taking responsibility. It's much easier to judge others & wait to be saved than to accept that you did this to yourself. The tradeoff is your freedom & so many willingly make this trade. The first step to freedom is accepting responsibility for your own experience.